Those Were the Days

This is what I wore to church this morning.......finally!  I bought this dress on the internet about five years ago and just haven't had the courage to wear it till now.  I'm not sure what prompted the wearing of it today but I just put it on and walked out the door!  I'm a sucker for vintage clothing because of the detail and the femininity.  Women really knew how to dress in the 40's and 50's.   I have a way-on-the-backburner goal of someday making a fru-fru dress similar to those you can see Lucy wear on the "I Love Lucy Show".  Lots of lace and satin!

My mom gave me this dress a few years ago.  It belonged to my grandmother and, boy, was she small!  I actually wore it once back when Bob and I were on the "no flour, no sugar" diet and I'd lost 25 pounds.  It's probably equivalent to a size 8 of today so there's no getting into these days unfortunately.  Of course I love it because it was Grandma's but I also love it because of the lace and the navy slip that goes under it.  So feminine!

Here's a close-up of the same dress  you can see the lace better.

The dress below is one I bought at a garage sale quite awhile ago.  It fits me but I'll probably never wear it and I'm sad about that.  The lace and detail is so cool but it looks a little like a go-go dress or something so I'm just not confident enough to be in public.  Plus, the diamond look trim around the waist and the lace overlay make it kind of dressy and I don't do dressy much.  Also, I just can't get past the fact that it gives the look of wearing your undergarments on the outside!!  I'm just sayin'! 

Blame It On Niece Camp!

Well, the Jacobs family truly had a physical journey last weekend when my two amenable children and my big, strong, hunk of a husband (read on and you'll see the need for much buttering up) pitched in and accomplished fulfilling a little dream I started conniving a couple of years ago, to make a seating area in my garden.  

It all started in 2007 at Niece Camp.  One of the activities we did that year was painting on paving stones.  And then the next year we made our own paving stones by pouring concrete into pizza boxes and then decorating the wet squares with gems and finger writing.  I love all of my paving stones that remind me of my fun nieces and have wanted to do something special with them ever since. 

In a whole separate line of thinking I came up with this seating area idea, mulling that over for awhile, like I said, and came up with a design to incorporate the paving stones into a patio area in front of my garden.  Actually, Kaylee pushed hard to convince me to go ahead and make the plunge.  Otherwise, this dream would have stayed a dream.  Teamwork!

So here's a look at the yard before our three day test of endurance started.       

And we're off!  There was a little mixup in the beginning about who, indeed, was going to be in charge of this project but the one with the biggest shovel won.......it helped a smidge that he also knows just a little something about construction and how stuff goes together.  I do the dreaming and scheming.  Bob makes it real (yawn!) by adding to the mix things like levels, measuring tapes, and the OCD need for everything to be perf.....uh, I mean right!  

We used brick pavers and flagstone.

First we......well, THEY pulled out some of the existing brick border so we (I did help a little!)could make the circle patio fit inside the garden itself. 

I saved as much of the dug up soil as I could because I'm expanding the garden over along the north fence and will need it to do that.  I ended up with this and some trash cans full.   

Bobby had other fish to fry (i.e. hanging out with Jennifer) so Kaylee and Bob did most of the digging.  And there were some sore backs all around later that night, to be sure.  When I wasn't playing photographer I was taking the grass plugs they dug up and replanting them in low places around the yard while also creating lovely playground material for the hens (insert frustration here).  I also sifted and collected the best of the soil to use in the new part of the garden. 



Bobby was back on Monday and Kaylee was glad to turn some of the job over to him.

He laid all the the pavers for the outside of the circle but there were jobs to be had by all.  It was hot and the sun didn't feel sorry for us and let up even one bit.

See, I actually did help a little.  But the afternooon shade helped and brought much welcome relief.

Time for a break before Bobby headed back to Oklahoma.

The semi-final result.  I still need to do the north fence garden.  And I'm thinking a fire pit might be fun.  We'll see!

Here are some examples of the niece pavers that are now part of the patio.  I know Kaylee isn't a niece but I was glad she took part in the fun.

Amy

Sadie

I don't remember why Mimi's ended up on a broken regular brick but there it is!

Erin

A View from the Crosswalk--It's a wrap!

Sigh!  I'm so ready for a break from the crosswalk but the last day always makes me sad.  It means change, transition, a move forward into the unkown.  In other words, it's the end of my 17th year and I'm old.  That's all there is to it.  But is it?  

This is the first year I've kind of gotten emotional about the end.  The looming luxury of sleeping in at least a couple of days out of the week and knowing for sure I'll be back iin the fall usually override any sadness I would feel.  At this point I'm planning on being back but maybe this time, I'm just not sure.  Or maybe my loathing of good-bye's and change is growing with increasing strength as I age.

It doesn't help that it's Colt's last year.  I met Colt when he was a little toddler and his mom would walk the older two siblings across the street.  I mean, seriously, where did these six years go?  As he made his way across the street this afternoon he gave me a big ol' hug and thanked me for always walking them across. 

Then there's Cody.  Cody is the grandson of an old friend of mine and he lives down the street from me.  When Cody was about four his mom died and so he has lived with his grandmother  ever since.  He is now graduated from elementary school and I've given him a ride almost every year since he started.  I'll miss his fun personality in the mornings. 

 And Janina too.  I also met her as a toddler and, even though she's been a little more sporadic than Colt, she's walked across every year since.  Janina's mom is very Americanized but from the middle east and still speaks with a strong accent.  As they both walked across this afternoon the mom thanked me "for your kindness".  Wait!  Where did those tears come from?  Sometimes I go way overboard into sentimental territory.

Okay, before I put the stop sign away for the summer, it's time to hold it up in front of myself and  put an end to my sappy silliness.  Time to  move on to late mornings, uncommitted afternoons, four day weekends, and decking out that new patio we just put in!!  Oh, did I forget to tell you about that?  Well, more news on that is just around the corner.  That post may get the title of "How to Move Quickly Toward Divorce!".  Just kidding................hmmmmm!           

Updates

My home made vanilla flavoring project is an ongoing work in progress but a success.  The far left jar is the three month old version done with whole vanilla beans soaked in vodka.  The jar on the right is new, as you can see from the label, but was made with the leftover vanilla beans, cut open and seeds scraped out.  I'm pretty sure the second version will be the most flavorful if color decides any part of the outcome. 

Then there's my winter sowing project....not so successful.  Here on the right is all I salvaged from the five seed starts.  It's one of the types of seed I harvested when I was out and about somewhere so I don't even know what it's called except that its a bushy plant with orange daisy like flowers that are hearty in heat.  They don't seem really happy right now in these little pots but I don't have a good spot to put them so am stalling a few more days till I find a sunny place.  Not so easy anymore since there is more and more shaded area in my yard. 

Here's a not so successful (the jury's still out) example of my winter sowing project.  From this distance while it looks like there's nothing....... 

here's a closer look and there are actually little seedlings!  I'm not sure that they aren't just little weeds that will soon just die, I am having fun watching to see what will happen.  One thing I know for sure is that they're not what I planted in the milk carton.  This is the container where I planted the castor seed.  It didn't take.  The good news, though, is that I went scrounging around in my seed collection and found what I thought was a castor seed.  I wasn't sure and the seed had to be at least two years old and had been out int the elements.  But I figured it was worth a try so I planted it.  And now I've got a castor plant growing out in my garden under the hollyhocks.  So when the hollyhocks are spent for this season I'll just cut them down to make way for my baby castor plant to grow into the glorious and beautiful addition to my garden. 

Okay, remember the potential-wildflower-but-probably-weed I picked from the property that used to belong to my ancestors?  Well, now it's just pretty much a weed.  Actually it looks like it may want to bloom something but I think some wierd little some kind of bug came along for the ride from the country because it's eaten what might have been a bloom.  I can't tell for sure if my theory is correct about the blooms but there is definitely some  strange bug that's chowing down.  It looks like a walking stick bug but is tiny.  The good thing is that I still have a reminder of our family outing in the country.

This next picture is sort of an update on the chickens.  Because of them I pretty much can't have any exposed dirt or plant that's accessible to them.  Therefore, I've had to make little fences with chicken wire for my dragon wing begonia....   

and my impatiens on the porch.  Kaylee and I built a makeshift fence around my little veggie garden so now I've got tomatoes growing safe from scratching and pecking.  The chickens still get into my flower garden sometimes when I'm not around to shoo them out with the broom but they haven't done that much harm so I guess I'll give them a pass with that.  For now. 

And here's the final update.  I have an unexpected and always welcome day off from my driving job today so I took a picture of where I might be headed, oh, around 1 or 2 this afternoon, for a little nap.  Ah, the plus side of the empty nest! 

Moses, Joseph, David, and Mom

I've been hearing and reading lately about different people in the Bible and God has allowed me to see clearly that these heroes that I've learned about all my life are flawed.  I mean, I knew their stories but their mistakes and imperfections while also growing spiritually and being used mightily by God have really stuck out to me this time. 

Joseph started out being a tattletale and annoyed everyone in his family by bragging but, boy, did God use Joseph.  He later had an amazing work ethic, didn't fall easily into temptation, was forgiving, and he honored and worshipped God above all else.

Moses let his anger get away from him and was later afraid to speak out even though God gave him all that he needed to do so.  But then he was responsible for thousands of Jews making it to the promised land and he agreed to be the vessel that God used to administer the ten commandments.

David was available to be used by God from pretty much the very beginning and was called "a man after God's own heart".  But David had flaws too.  He succumbed to temptation that ruined other's lives and even resulted in a death.  He was also a pretty sad excuse for a father.  But God used him.

So how does Mary Jacqueline Bibb Walton fit into this scenario?  Well, she's no Joseph, Moses, or David, I'll admit, but for me, anyway, she was used by God.  As I grew up I was always aware that my Mom desired God and His ways.  She was distracted by a large family and disappointments along the way, allowing Satan in the mix to rob her of happiness sometimes, but she always went back to the foundation of why she was here, to know God better and to glorify Him in her life.  Like Joseph, Moses, and David, she was flawed.  She was a sinner and her actions sometimes had harmful results.  But, for me, ultimately she was the arrow that pointed to God.  I was influenced spiritually by several different people along the way but Mom was the one that caused me to desire to know God better and to further study His Word.  

So on this Mother's Day 2012 I'm thankful that God has provided His Word so that we might learn about imperfect people and how He used them.  And I'm thankful for  my mom and the spiritual legacy she left to me.    

 

Iowa holiday

For me, it's always so nice to get away.  And this time my destination of choice was Iowa where I was able to visit my good and long time friend, Shari.  I've written about her before but Shari used to be my neighbor here on Georgetown Dr.  She and her fun family,  unfortunately for me, moved back to her home state of Iowa about 17 years ago and we have written weekly letters back and forth ever since. 

Shari is really busy right now getting her last child and only son graduated from high school but she made time for me and we had a great time visiting and seeing the Iowa sights. 

On Saturday, after her son Ryan's soccer game, we ate outside at a restaurant right on the Mississippi River.  Such a beautiful day!  Shari invited her friend Dottie to eat with us because she thought we might hit it off and we did!  I definitely have a new friend now and that's always fun.  The three of us just sat, eating and talking for three hours.  So lovely to be able to relax and enjoy visiting. 

 


Saturday night was Ryan's prom so I was glad to get this picture of  mom and son.  He's her youngest child and only son so when he leaves for California to go to college this fall there will be an empty spot for sure.  I feel like her sadness probably won't last long though since her eighth grandchild in three years will be born in September.  Yeah, amazing!  The eight are spread pretty evenly between her three beautiful daughters.     


Apparently they have black squirrels
 in this part of Iowa so of course
 I had to get a picture of that.



Here's how the whole idea for the trip started.  I offered to make Ryan a t-shirt quilt for his graduation.  And I didn't want to trust the mail options to get it there safely so I just decided to hand deliver it.  They were more than appreciative and I know the quilt will be treasured.

And here's Shari and her husband, Kip.  He's one of the pastors of
a church there and they make a pretty great ministry team. 
Thanks again, guys, for hosting me!

Henhouse woes

It was bound to happen.  When I acquired three hens, that meant I acquired females.  And that means hormones.  And that means nothing but trouble.  Are you with me, ladies??

One of my hens has gone broody.  Her body wants badly to lay on eggs and hatch them.  There's just one problem with that plan though.  It's not possible for my hens to lay fertile eggs.  You need a rooster and that ain't happenin'.  First of all I'm already breaking city codes by having chickens in my back yard and second of all, neighbors would probably complain about the crowing, setting off issues with the subject of the first reason.  And thirdly, well,  I don't want a rooster, thank you very much.  

So, because there's no rooster, the eggs don't get fertilized and we can't have babies.  I know!  Isn't that the saddest thing you've ever heard?  Just come on over and I'll show you sad!  I was so worried about the poor Rock that I even checked on Craig's List about buying a fertile egg for her to lay on and hatch.  The lady from the ad didn't even laugh at me when I called her but gave me several reasons why that's not a good idea, one being that the fertile egg might turn into, you guessed it, a rooster.  Huh!  Hadn't thought of that.  

The Rock doesn't seem to be as bothered as much today but I'm trying to keep her out of the nesting box as much as possible and get her through this depressing and "broody" time.  I read online that you can dunk the hen in cold water to help her get over it.  Are you kidding me???  Some man had that bright idea is what I'm thinking!!

And yesterday when I was figuring all this out, I noticed that the Rock and the Buff both were pecking all under their feathers as if they were itching like crazy.  Mites!!  I'd read about them before I got chickens but learned that if you only had a few and if they were able to "bathe" enough then the liklihood of getting mites was minimal.  Well, so much for that theory.  Actually, I'm not even sure they've got mites but while I was in crisis mode I thought I'd just add to the female drama and go all the way.  So last night Bob caught the Buff (he's my hero!), I took her by the legs and turned her over, and she just hung there.  Weird!  Turns out when they're upside down they're very docile.  Who'da thunk?  (I know that you're wishing there were pictures right about now but I'm sorry to say that we were otherwise occupied so, sadly, there are none.)  Anyway, one by one, we sprinkled the hens with mite powder and, after cleaning out the nesting boxes and sprinkling them well, hopefully we've taken care of the potential but maybe nonexisting mites.  One can only hope, right?

I do have one picture of the oh so uncomfortable and grumpy Rock just trying to get some peace while I keep opening the door of the nesting boxes to shoo her off.  Poor thing!  Maybe her system will get back to normal soon.