Kaylee's Thanksgiving surprise: The story

Kaylee:  Mom, I want to do it.  It'll be great, I promise!

Mom:  I'm not sure this is the best idea but, okay, go ahead. 

Kaylee:  Okay, I'm ready now.  I'm about to do it.

 

 Kaylee:  Are you guys ready?  It's gonna be great!

 Kaylee:  I'm so excited!  This is it!  Here I go!

 Kaylee:  I'm dancing!  See, I told you it would be great!

 Kaylee:  See Mom, even Jennifer thought it was a good idea...........

Kaylee:  Pssst Mom, I think I injured something....

Pins tell it all----well, some of it.

I've been a realtor since August of 2012 and, just recently, I received my million dollar pin from Ebby Halliday Realtors.  That means I've closed a million dollars worth of home sales.  Yay me!  But what do you do with pins, right?  Well, mulling that over made me think about my GA vest which became my catch all for any pin I received or had stashed around the house.  So I thought I'd show it to you.  Aren't you glad  you popped in on my blog now?  You are!  You know you are......

 

Here's the vest.  I haven't worn it in a few years but I was a Girls in Action leader back in the day and loved showing off all my pins.

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Here's the patch that started it all.  All together I taught GA's probably for about 10 or 12 years.  I taught for a few when Bob and I first got married and then, again, when Kaylee was going through the program.  I love teaching kids about God, His Word, and His people!

This little guy is probably my oldest pin.  He's from Avon and the date on the back shows 1972.  I was 12.  It was probably something my mom got for me from her Avon lady.  1972  was a long time ago, folks!  I'm old!  And his face opens up to show some pretty disgusting lip balm or maybe perfume.  I'm not testing it!

Next in chronological line is this little yellow saxophone.  I have no clue where it came from but it represents me in high school and college when I loved being in band, mostly the marching one.  Even though, as drum major, I led the band down the wrong street in a parade.  Yeah, it happened.  Another story for another post........or maybe not.

How can you not smile when you're being a servant?  I got this button when I was in charge of a Denton Baptist Association GA weekend retreat and I was about 8 months pregnant with Kaylee.  I had energy then.  Even at 8 months pregnant.   

And then the babies started coming.  I couldn't help but add one of my diaper pins to the vest.  They were all so darned cute and they were pinned on many, many cloth diapers back in the day.  Sigh!  Babies are just not babies for long enough.

This baby grew up to be a baseball player, a short lived pianist, a lover of all things Pokémon, a percussionist, a pilot, and the pin in the bottom corner shows that he graduated from Air Force basic training a few years ago.  And now he's a husband.  See, that baby grew up way too fast for this mommy.  But, come to think of it, I'm pretty fond of him at the age he is right about now.  Life is funny and good. 

And then there's my first born, Kaylee.  She grew up to be a VERY short lived dancer when she was five, a baseball player, a pianist who only plays for herself (unfortunately) a percussionist, a home owner, and a teller.  Oh yeah, and she's this mom's very good friend!

And this sweet little pin just sums it up and says it all!  

A Trip Down Memory Lane...in Ft. Worth!

 You know you're old when words like "vintage" play a part in your memories.  Like this cool vintage subway car that I like to think I once rode in.

 

I'm hoping my siblings, at least, will appreciate this blog post and maybe they'll be reminded of the same happy time.

 

Bob's current project with Rogers-OBrien is remodeling an office building in downtown Ft. Worth.  It's unrecognizable now but umpteen years ago on that same site was a department store called Leonard's.

                       

Leonard's was one of the places my family would go shopping when I was little and the best thing about Leonard's was the subway.  Because of a lack of parking space, the owners, at some point built a private subway from the parking area to the store, via a dark and very exciting tunnel.

 

So after Bob's company was way into this remodel, some very smart person decided to honor the memory of the store and the unique concept of the "free" parking lot subway by having the car restored and then moved into the lobby of the building.  The car was apparently built in the 30's or 40's and used in Washington D.C. before being bought and moved, decades later, to Ft. Worth so it could be ridden in by me.

 

 When the building is finished there will be a small Leonard's museum in the lobby with the subway car.  And I'll be one of the first to visit.

Dusting Through the Years

Every once in awhile I get a little overwhelmed with life and wish for someone to clean my house.  But this morning as I was dusting I was reminded of a blessing. 

 

As I dusted Bob's guitar case as I have for 30 years, it just hit me that I've dusted that guitar case for 30 years!  Amazing!  But as I realized that, I was thankful that I have a husband who is so talented and has blessed us with his music.  Music that's been handed down through the generations.  He taught himself to play but was influenced greatly by his Uncle Tommy and others in his mother's ultra and multi musically talented family.  Bob was also influenced by the great work of Bob Wills and The Texas Playboys and James Taylor, two of his favorites.

 

As I dusted the bookshelves in Kaylee's room I'm reminded of the blessing that she is.  I've replaced a lot of her things with mine but have left remnants of who she is as she grew up.  There are books that were special to her and so they are to me.  There's a shelf dedicated to some of her artwork and crafts over the years.  And there's a shelf that is full of trinkets that represent Kaylee's special relationship with her Nan.  

 

Then I looked in Bobby's room........and that's as far as I got.  He and Jennifer got married a month ago and he hasn't completely moved out yet.  Which is okay.  I know that eventually his remaining possessions will be gone and Bob and I are already making plans for the space.  But I'm happy to make the transition gradually.  And when I do get in there to clean and dust, there'll be blessings.  Right now there are just too many "blessings" to dust.  

 

I honestly have never considered dusting much at all other than a dreaded chore.  But it was pretty fun today to realize that even dusting has its advantages.    

 

      

 

 

What Kaylee Said!

I know I'm partial but if you haven't read my daughter, Kaylee's, blog, you're missing a treat.  She is so funny and clever with words.  Recently she posted about Bobby and Jennifer's wedding and it was so great that I'll just refer you to her blog.  

 

Enjoy!

 

 http://myownwhitehouse.blogspot.com/ 

Real Estate and Horses

It's been almost a year now.  I'm a realtor and I still can't get my mind around that sometimes.  It has been interesting, hard, fun, hard, challenging, and, did I mention, hard?  If I'd known what was ahead this time last year I'd have thrown in the towel early in the game.  Truly!  But I'm so glad I didn't.....I think.  The jury is still out, actually, but I can at least keep my head above water now so I'm willing to give it a little more time.

 

I have had many interesting and challenging experiences but just last week was definitely one for the blog.  And it happened in Collinsville.  At my listing in the country.  It's a small home on 11 acres and it's been on the market for about a month so I decided to host an Open House.  I knew it was a risk since it was a country home and in Collinsville, to boot, but I'd tried lots of other marketing strategies so I felt like I needed to at least give it a try. 

 

And it was pretty much a bust.  Nobody showed.  But I found a really cute book in the house about the history of Texas so there's that little plus.....yawn! 

 

Soooo, after two sleepy hours I was making my way out the door and noticed the four horses sauntering up from the pasture and out the open gate to the yard.  I got a little nervous because I knew the front gate to the property was open and I was afraid the horses would head that direction.  So far they were staying close to the back of the house so I called the owner to find out what to do.  I know, right about now you're thinking why didn't I just lead the horses back into the pasture and close the gate.......well, as much as I hate to admit it, I'm a city girl and I'm apparently afraid of horses.  And there were four of them so don't be so quick! 

 

The owner said that as long as I closed the front gate behind me as I left, the horses would be fine.  The front gate is about 50 yards away from the house, down a long driveway.  I was parked past the house at the end of the drive so I mosied (I'm in Collinsville after all) out to my car and started to back out but as I looked in my rear view mirror I just about stopped breathing when I saw two of the horses galloping (yes, galloping) down the driveway and out the gate.  Are you kidding me?  I had on sandals and white capris.  What in the heck was I going to do now?  Other than panic, I mean.

 

So I followed them.  In the car.  When I turned onto the road I saw that they'd stopped about 30 yards away so I slowly passed them and turned around, which wasn't easy on the narrow dirt road lined by tall weeds and trees.  But I finally got turned, started back toward the property, and noticed the horses trot back through their gate on their own.  Whew!  I've had a lot of catastrophes and close calls in my real estate career but this one had to certainly be the most unique.

 

And if you want to buy a sweet little house in the country, just call me!   

 

 



The Chicken Won!

If you had told me a couple of years ago that I'd be getting into a fight with a chicken I'd have said......well, I'd have said "Sure, probably.....yeah, I can see myself doing that!"  I mean, that's just kind of how my life goes.  So it happened.  After a year and a couple of months of owning chickens, I did actually have a fight with one of them. 

 

Bob and I were in a hurry to leave last Saturday afternoon and the chickens had been out all day so I wanted them in before we left.  And what I want, I usually get.  Ask Bob.  But don't ask the chickens because they're under the assumption that they are in control, that they rule the roost, so to speak.  

 

I don't usually have to round the girls up in the evening.  They just go into their coop/home to roost when it gets dark and we just have to close the gate.  So they had no clue what was happening this day and weren't having any of it.  I tried chasing, I tried their snack, scratch, and I tried throwing bananas into the coop.  They'd just run in, grab the banana, and scoot back out, and they didn't all do it at the same time.  Grrrr!  

 

Bob finally got hold of the quickest and wiliest of the three so my task now was to corral the other, greedier and slower ones.  The banana piece was sitting on the threshold, I was bent down to keep them from scooting back out, and they were headed in.  Now, just keep in mind that we had been harassing these hens for about twenty minutes so they were very skeptical, to say the least.  So with Bob still holding the Link in the background I made my move to push the other two on in the coop.  But I just wasn't quick enough and the Rock had had enough.  She lunged and spurred me with her talon lickety split.  I quickly backed off and felt a trickle of something wet run down my cheek.  Blood!  Good grief!  That hen had made a two inch long scratch from across the bridge of my nose down to my left cheek.  And I was waving the proverbial white flag of defeat.  They stayed out. 

 

And for the next few days I looked a little like Frankenstein.  I thought about posting a picture but not for very long.  Yes, I can be as vain as the next person.   The scratch is healing up now and I'll have to admit that it made for a pretty good conversation piece.  Silver linings, right?      

My Chain Link Fence

Two of the things I love most about my home are my big back yard and my chain link fence.  Over the twenty plus years we've lived here I have loved getting to know my lovely back door neighbor, Marilyn.  If it weren't for my see-through-fence I wouldn't be able to take part in her beautiful and unique irises as they bloom each Spring and the rest of her flowers through the summer.  She has two bird baths so that's fun to watch and there's even a gate between our yards so I can go over to visit or offer eggs every once in awhile.  

 

On the side of my yard is George and Genia.  Their yard has a little bit of a different look than Marilyn's because they tend to let things grow naturally without lettiing things take over and I love visiting with them also over the fence.  Their children were just grown and gone when we moved in and it's fun to hear about and see their growing families when they come to visit.  Marilyn's and George and Genia's grandkids just love coming up to the fence to watch the chickens' antics or visit with Thursday (Kaylee's dog) when she's here.  

 

On the other side of my yard I've been able to watch a varied and sundry group of folks move in and out as that house has always been a rental.  When we first moved in it was vacant but filled with furniture as if someone lived there.  An elderly lady had moved out and the house sat like that for a couple of years before a niece of the lady finally decided to rent it.  The first tenants turned out to be the Hamby's and when they moved to Iowa a few years later my neighbor, Shari turned into my pen pal, Shari and we've been writing letters (yeah, real ones....on paper.....with a stamp) every week for the last eighteen years.  So when I look across the fence to that yard I see the little storage house in the back yard where Kaylee played for so many hours with the Hamby girls...and it brings a smile.

 

So I love my chain link fence.  As I show homes as part of my new career as a realtor, I see lots of sad looking wood fences that often need repair and are so high you can't even see the neighbors, much less visit with them.  In this day of privacy and stay-to-ourselves lifestyles, I'll take my friendly (and might I add, sturdy) chain link fence any day.    

Donny Osmond and the little old lady

My friend, Deanna, came over for lunch yesterday and this is what we had for dessert.  I probably need to practice my food photography so if you can't tell, it's a brownie with ice cream, topped with chocolate sauce.  And there's a story that goes with the sauce.

When I was a pre-teen I was a Donny Osmond fan.  Okay, I'll admit it--I was a fanatic.  The word was created for people like me.  I'm just sayin'.  It was bad.

Anyway, when I was about twelve, the Osmonds were coming to do a concert in Ft. Worth and I absolutely HAD to go.  My mom said that my friend, Debbie, and I could go but that I had to pay not only for my ticket but my sister's ticket because she would be our chaperone.  Suzy is only two years older than me so I'm not sure how useful she was as a chaperone but at the time I was willing to agree with whatever it took for me to get to that concert. 

I'm not sure how the little job came about but I think my mom saw an ad in the paper.  Anyway, there was this elderly lady that was looking for someone to help her clean and organize her home.  I guess she knew I was twelve because of my short stature, but for whatever reason, the lady agreed to let me "help" her.  

I don't remember a whole lot about the cleaning and organizing part except I have this vision in my mind of a room full of boxes.  But what I remember most (and I think this is mostly what happened) is the lady making homemade chocolate sauce and the two of us sitting at her kitchen table talking, having the most delicious ice cream and sauce I'd ever tasted.  Every time I went she'd serve me that ice cream and that sauce and we'd talk.  So when I became an adult I found a recipe that I'm pretty sure is exactly or very close to what she made.  And it's still so yummy. 

And I got to go to the concert!  The lady (I sure wish I could remember her name....Mrs. Bo or Beau something, it was two words) took me to the bank when my "job" was over to cash a check and hand over the money for the tickets.  I can still remember that ride to the bank and I'm not sure which of us was more excited for me, the lady or me.  She even reminisced about the Rudy Vallee concert she went to as a young girl.  

And the concert was, of course, perfect.  I told myself I wouldn't be one of those girls that went crazy, screaming and all, but it took about one song and I was on my feet, screaming with excitement and frenzy.  Oh, the life of a twelve year old......fun memory for sure!



People

I love my little second job, driving public transportation for SPAN.  It gives me an opportunity to take a break from the all consuming new life of real estate.

 

Driving for me is very relaxing and I get to meet so many different kinds of people.  And SPAN gives me the opportunity to help people who are older, mentally handicapped, or ill have a little freedom in their lives.

 

And I meet some very interesting ones.  Just this week I picked up a 30ish year old young mentally handicapped man who is apparently a savant.....about NASCAR, of all things.  For the duration of our drive, about 20 minutes, he spoke very intelligently about statistics, names, and pretty much all things racing and exotic cars. I don't think I've ever met a savant before so it was quite interesting and really amazing.  Fun!

 

Another day this last week I picked another mentally handicapped young man who truly has to be the most pleasant person I've ever been around.  From the time he stepped on the bus till he got off he was smiling, conversing happily with the couple of older people that were onboard at the time.  And when he smiled, his whole face lit up and his eyes squinted and became little smiles too.  I mean I've been around happy people before but this guy just seemed different.  The closest I can come to describing him might just be Santa.  I take these happy little events as real blessings.  

 

There's this older Japanese man I pick up periodically and he was about seven during WWII.  He lived in California at the time and he remembers that his family was given the option of moving to Nevada so that's what they did instead of being relocated to an internment camp.  I didn't know they had a choice but that's what he said.  

 

Then there's the Yankee ladies.  Pardon me if I offend anybody but I can usually tell pretty quickly the first time one of these sweet (or not so much) ladies open their mouths.  Partly because they have accents but partly because of their attitudes which is usually very sure of themselves and they don't care who knows it.  Most of them have moved down south to follow their adult children who've come here for jobs.

 

People!  As my mom used to say, "It takes all kinds!"     

A Little Date?

 I don't know if I'd call it a mid life crisis but between my new real estate career and Bob's newfound love of all things guns, he and I have sure been having a time.

 

The weather was just perfect today so we headed to the gun range.  Here's Bob enjoying his brand new toy attached to his fairly new other toy.  It's an amazing thing to behold.  Bob never does anything halfway and the gun and reloading hobby is no exception.

 

  

I don't go to the range as much as Bob would probably like but once I'm there I get into it too and it's kind of like having a little competition against yourself to see just how close you can get to that center point. 

This is my target and I didn't do too badly once I got used to the rifle.  Yeah, we were shooting rifles this time and I had one of Bobby's (shhh!  don't tell him). 

 

Bob and I are handling the empty nest just fine!  Or at least that's what I keep telling myself.  : )  

 



Little Happenin's on the Farm!

Yeah, yeah, I know I don't live on a farm but I do what I can with my limited recources.  Hey, I have chickens!  That's gotta be good for at least one "farm" blog post. 

A few years ago Bob made me this great compost bin and it has been great.  There's just something about making soil that's just so satisfying.  One year I even raised earthworms and that was really fun.  I may try that again sometime.  My garden was really happy that year.  

 

 

 As I said, I've really enjoyed my compost bin but recently one of my friends and my sister, Linda, have acquired compost barrels and I allowed jealousy to rule the day and asked for one for Christmas.  And Bob listened!  So here's my new and improved composter that is just too much fun to turn, knowing that I'm mixing up all that great new soil.  I put a lot of my kitchen scraps in it and I also collect the used coffee that our Kroger Starbucks is so nice to leave out.  Coffee grounds make great compost.   

SPAN, the transportation company I work for, gave all the drivers a Walmart gift card for Christmas so I decided to spend it on a firepit for the little patio area we built out by the flower garden.  We haven't used it yet but I'm looking forward to the first s'more party.  I still need to get some outdoor chairs for the space but that'll come. 

And now for the annoying happenin's on the farm.  I have this amazingly beautiful and majestic Red Oak Tree in my yard.  But the annoying part is that it drops these!  By the kazillions!

We planted the tree about twenty years ago (I know because I have a picture of Bobby standing in front of the sapling when he's about two) and it took about five for it to start dropping acorns.  But for the last couple it's been more like a downpour of acorns.  Last year I vacuumed them up (I know!) with Bob's shop vac but this year it just seemed like too much (ya think?) so I gave up quickly.  I hired the kids that live behind us to come and pick them up and they did a pretty decent job and then I've been collecting them a bucket at a time now and then.  The problem is that for some crazy reason I decided to plant three more of these acorn dropping monsters.  Two in the back yard to keep Miss Drop It All company and one in the front.  So I'll either figure out a way to get rid of the acorns or I'll give up and have a brown bumpy yard instead of a green grassy one.  Good grief!  I probably ought to give up on the green grassy yard anyway since I have chickens.

 

And that's what's happenin' on the Jacobs farm (aka the back yard)!